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Sunday, September 19, 2004

yar it's time for my pt of view again.. i dunno ehh.. jus wondering wat's the meaning of 'filial'? issit so difficult to show one's care and concern to one's own mother? jus tt teeny weeny bit of concern from one's action is such a difficult job?! y can't one spend a little of his time to pay her a visit?! jus a visit is she asking for too much? a child's duty to its parents is to obligate, respect and be responsible.. wat more?! nothing more.. jus a few of tis he din even give a little of it.. none. suffering frm senile is not wat she wants too.. surrounding ppl yelling at her, screaming at her and pushing all the blame to her is not the way to deal the problem! ridiculous! i jus haf the feel she knoes wat's going on ard her.. why can't they use another way to tell her nicely?

has he forgotten who was the one who brought him up? has he forgotten who was the one who worked day in and day out in order to haf the ability to bring him up for over twenty years? all the sufferings she had gone thro is he able to feel and see it? no matter how hard is the life in the past.. she persevere on to give the best to her children.. did she ever give up her children when problems arised? do he knoes all these? in his eyes are nothing.. he can see none of it. if he is able to see the truth of all the misunderstandings.. he wun misapprehend his siblings.. and being no respect towards his sibilings.. over forty years of kin-ship means nothing to him.. the special bond tt they built up since young.. he had longed been forgotten.. all buried elsewhere.. no one can find it back.. only he himself..

wat exactly does a mother actually yearn for? definitely not the wealth of her own children.. she wanna see her children to set up their own family and cope well wif it.. she wanna see her own children and grandchildren weekly.. even its jus a weekly visit she'll be perfectly content.. issit so difficult to fulfil all these? she has lived for 80 over yrs.. wat she wanna lead is jus a simple life.. now is her time to enjoy the rest of her life happily wif her grandchildren.. share her joy wif her dearest children.. a life wif no hatred to be seen among her children.. a life where she no needa worry for anything..

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