im glad tt everything went rather smoothly.. jus hoped my grandpa carry no worries and walked till the end. yar.. my maternal grandpa got passed away tis monday. after work on monday.. i gave dad a call to tell him im gg to visit ah gong.. den he jus simply said 'faster come now. come asap..' yar. reached there.. ah gong had chose to end his journey. ah gong had been unconscious for 2 days.. cos of the urinary tract infection and leads to blood infection.
actually ah gong's birthday is on tuesday.. he's unable to bear till his birthday. my uncle brought the cake to him.. hold his hand to cut the cake.. naturally tears jus flowed. den my brother came. mother asked him to go near ah gong to call him. i also followed him.. i hold ah gong's hands.. its cold and stiff.. yar. at tt moment ah ma still dunno abt it.
anyway they decided on a 5-days funeral.. these 5 days was really an eye-opener. true colours of ur relatives were all shown clearly. good or bad u can judge it. filial or not u can know it. acting or real u can see wif ur naked eyes. anyway these 5 days i really had a meaningful lecture at the 'social university' whereby u can see the best and wicked side of human beings.. be it is strangers or ur relatives. yar.. dealing wif ppl is not easy.. EIC applies to all circumstances eh.
im fortuate to haf my dad and mum. im glad they are so understanding.. especially dad. yar. watever it is.. dad had done his best.. dad had done as much as he could.. dad had contribute watever he could.. jus hope those unwaken creatures had learnt a lesson. hoping those creatures should know wat to do now and not creating trouble anymore.
yar.. i admit im not tt close to mum's side comparing to my dad's.. its till ah gong and ah ma moved to ang mo kio i then started to communicate wif them. a simple greeting of 'how of are u?' they'll be glad. ah ma is very dependent on ah gong.. i admire ah gong's determination and perseverance. he had lived for 85 yrs and he din give up on learning new stuffs.. yar. ah gong love his grandchildren alot.. whenever we are sick.. he will make an effort to give a call and asked abt our condition. ppl always say 'treausre watever u haf and whoever its still living'. i find tt its so true now. yar.. really treasure those who are still living.. dun regret when its gone.. i regretted. i regret for not putting extra effort to communicate wif him. dun regret for its too late. no point crying over spilt milk. yar..
i know its a natural course to life and death.. its jus fated.. when its time for u to end ur journey here.. tts jus ur fate. yar. alot of times human haf to learn to take it, to handle it and to bear wif it. probably he's gone at tis time is a good thing for him so he wun haf to suffer anymore. yar..
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